caught him cheating

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Registered: 07-24-2004
caught him cheating
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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 2:51am
I heard a message that a woman left my husband on his cell but he does not know that I heard this message I still have not said anything to him I want to be calm when I aproach him. I almost feel like I pushed him to another womans arms because I was so mean to him the las couple of months. But only because I don't feel secure of myself I gained so much weight since we met and so has he But I used to tell him how fat he was and how he needed to loose weight and always had negative things to say to him now I do not want to loose him I LOVE him and we have a child together which I would like us to raise together. I don't know if I should forgive him is it the right thing to do last year I caught him talking on the net with other women which they would send nude pictures to him now this I don't know what to do.....I am confused any suggestions.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Mon, 07-26-2004 - 4:14pm
Make an appt with a counselor, then realize that his choices and behavior are esculating, first internet contact, nude photos, now voice mail, talking on the phone, hmm, could he have met her by now. You won't be able to move forward until you get everything out in the open.


Carrie