cheating?

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Registered: 02-15-2004
cheating?
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Sun, 02-15-2004 - 3:39pm
I am married, for almost a year. I had a very good relationship with my boss of three years, he recently left our company. Shortly after he left, we kissed. He moved away, and we keep in touch via email and telephone conversations. We talk almost every day and I think about him alot.

I know kissing him was wrong, and considered cheating. Our relationship has changed, and we care alot more for one another, and my husband is unaware of the extent of our new relationship.

Am I cheating by talking,and keeping in touch with him?

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Registered: 02-15-2004
In reply to: dillon24
Wed, 02-18-2004 - 11:48am
thanks again for all of the comments and opinions.

I have not talked with this person since last friday, and I told him then that I was going to concentrate on my marriage from now on.

I know that this developed relationship occured partly because my s.o. and I have been going thru some rough times.

I am willing to work on these issues, and make our marriage work.

I still care for this other man, but not enough to ruin my marriage.

thanks.

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