cheating?

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Registered: 07-12-2007
cheating?
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 2:07pm

Thanks for your response everyone.....can someone tell me how to delete a message board post that I have made?

Edited 7/12/2007 9:53 pm ET by beckywmu




Edited 7/13/2007 10:10 am ET by beckywmu
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Registered: 07-12-2007
In reply to: beckywmu
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 3:45pm

Yes, you are overreacting. What does getting mad NOW solve? He did it and there’s nothing he or you can do to change it. Yes, I think you have a right to be upset, but you need to get over it because this is in the past and staying upset really doesn't do any good.

Should he have refused? Yes. But he didn't and touching a girl's breast with his index finger is HARDLY cheating. If he’s anywhere close to your age, he probably was being a typical young guy and not really thinking. Besides, not that it makes it a whole lot better, but many people have curiosity about fake breasts - they want to see if they "feel real" or whatever. I saw a talk show once where the female host touched the guest's fake breasts out of curiosity. Does that mean she's a lesbian? No, no more than your husband touching this woman's fake breast with his index finger makes him a cheater.

And why in the world is it worse because they were twins?? Your husband made a silly mistake and touched another woman's fake, silicone breast a year ago. If she was a twin, a quintuplet or an only child, it makes no difference.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: beckywmu
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:08pm

Hi beckywmu and welcome to the board,


Nice of him to come clean after the fact.

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Registered: 06-04-2007
In reply to: beckywmu
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:12pm

I think the fact that he told you instead of hiding it; makes him innocent. I won't mind my bf touch a fake boob job because I trust him and He won't do anything to make me mad in a sense. It seems to me like he touched it outta curiosity, not desire. I would touch the twins too if I were him, too.

Do you trust him? But on the other hand, If the girl is happened to be his ex or someone he has a crush or had a thing with then I will be mad.

Ask him if he felt like he step out of the line. see from his answer. Also ask him if he would be mind, if a guy ask you to touch his rock hard abs and you touched it.

Things have to be fair in the relationship, right? ;)