Cheating

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Registered: 03-28-2007
Cheating
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Wed, 05-09-2007 - 9:34am
Hi, my boyfriend was treating me rather strangely lately. I have found out that he lies alot, keep secrets and flirted with someone I created online although he insists he knew it was me all along. He would get irritated for the slightest thing, he will not return my calls or even call me. It is difficult as he now works 4 hours away and we see each other maybe once a month. I always told him the truth and I never cheated on him, I am not certain whether he has cheated because of all the lies I cannot trust what he has to say. 10 years ago in another country i dated a guy for a couple of months who just moved to the country, it was not a serious boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because I was infatutated with another guy as well. After 6 months of meeting him i moved to america for a year when i returned i ignored him for about 3 years. i moved to england in October 2002 and found out last year Janurary he moved up here the same month as I. WE kept in contact over the phone with me putting him off each time he asked when we can meet. Twice we had dates set up but I cancelled at the last minute. Since he is in the same kind of work as my bf I decided i should stop putting it off. Last weekend we met and although the night started out a bit akward we later relaxed and was reminiscing about home and old times and how we almost died once in a car accident together. when he dropped me home and we hugged he kissed my neck and kissed me. long story short the next night we had sex four times and I think i am in love with him, he is now married but she is back home. my bf know we kissed but he thinks that is all that happened. should i break it off with both of them. any advice would be a great help thanks
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Registered: 04-27-2007
In reply to: ebonygal871
Wed, 05-09-2007 - 11:52am

Should you break if off with both of them?

YES and YES! Never "borrow" another women's man.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: ebonygal871
Wed, 05-09-2007 - 2:03pm
Yes you should break it off with both of you. You are cheating on your bf and he is cheating on his wife. You are now "the other woman".

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