Cheating Boyfriend!!!

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Registered: 06-22-2011
Cheating Boyfriend!!!
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Wed, 06-22-2011 - 10:01pm

My boyfriend that I have lived with for six years has recently admitted to have three affairs with other women. Most of these women I did not know and really did not have a clue that they happened. The last affair was with a girl we will call Ronnie. She is 32 years old and a CNA at an old folks home. Ronnie was engaged to my boyfriends brother who went to prison. Before he left he ask his brother

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 11:06pm
He didn't just mess up. He has a problem with committing to one woman. He had previous affairs before Ronnie. This behavior is a pattern for him, and it won't likely stop. He isn't even trying to convince you that he will do anything. He's already placed limits on what he is willing to do to get you guys through this. If this woman is so important that he won't give up the "friendship", he is placing you last on his list of concern. In my opinion, that makes this situation not worth sticking around. Move onto to someone who will value you.
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Registered: 05-20-2009
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 11:49pm

Don't you wonder how his brother will feel when he finds out how WELL he's taking care of Ronnie?

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 9:49am

A little too far?? Something like getting too flirty with other women is what i might categorize as going a little too far. What he did was going way way way way too far.

He gets to keep his "friendship" with Ronnie and you just have to swallow your pride? What a great deal for him! Not to mention the other two women. How many more do you think he will have in the future? As many as he wants it sounds like unless you do something about it.