cheating dad

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2007
cheating dad
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Mon, 05-12-2008 - 2:59pm
My dad cheated on my mother but she took him back because of financial reasons and she thought he would change. I am a recent college grad and I moved back in with my parents and my little sis. Well, last night I found my dad's dating profile. His 'secret' email address and an email address of a lady he had been contacting. I really do not want to see my parents get divorced but it may happen. Personally, my sister and I are studying to get into college and grad school. We both live at home. I really do not want the shouting matches to resume. It has been peaceful recently. I do want my dad to know I am on to him. I wish I could tell my mom without all the drama that I am sure that would follow. Anyways, what should I do? I do not have proof he actually met up with anyone but he def has been actively seeking someone else.

Don't wait for the world to make you happy.

 

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:42am

Welcome to the board tennischic,


Don't say anything to your mom about this. If you feel like you really must talk to your dad about it, than make sure to do so in private. You might want to ask him out to lunch and discuss it then. What do you hope to gain by telling him that you know?