Is Cheating like this norm
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| Tue, 03-11-2008 - 11:32am |
My wife of 6 years, total years togethere 10, cheated - during the time she was cheating she braged to everyone her family frends neghbors even had him at the house for sex when I was at work and my sister in the other room, my sister did not know. my wife always told me that she thought oral sex was nasty and she does not do that - I found out that during the time she was cheating she performed oral sex on the guy til he orgasumed around that same time we had an argument about her not doing me (I did not know at the time she was cheating) she told me it was nasty and I dont have to do her. I also found out that the guy told her at one point that he was burning down there and she should go and get checked out which she did
I dont know the out come - but she continued with him - she left him after I found out the affair lasted for 4 months - my question is how could she go out and perform oral sex on a stranger while at the same time telling me no is this behavor normal for cheaters please any advise - we are still together but I cannot understand this she offers no answers. And no I have never cheated on her
Please advise why would anyone behave like this and why give oral to a stranger and tell your husband no because you thing it is nasty

Welcome to the board rhrh1212,
I'm not sure there is an answer to that question.
Welcome to the board,
We can't answer why your wife would prefer oral sex on this man and not on you. This is only something she can answer.
Why did you decide to stay with her, and what are you doing to repair the marriage?
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