Chooses grandma over family

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Registered: 02-27-2004
Chooses grandma over family
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Fri, 02-27-2004 - 8:30pm
i have been married for almost a year and a half. My husband and i have a 16 month old son. My husbands grandma is a big part of his life. My problem is that my husband makes his decisions based on what his grandma would think. He continues to choose his grandma over the family that he started? I have been able to put up with it for a while. i don't know how much longer i will be able to put up with it. i know that i will not be able to live my the rest of my life with someone who is like this. I have tryed to talk to talk to him about this he just gets upset with me and thinks that i am trying to put his grandma down. what should i do about this? he needs to make a choice?
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 02-28-2004 - 2:06pm

Hi


what kind of decisions are we talking about here?

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Sat, 02-28-2004 - 5:25pm
'My problem is that my husband makes his decisions based on what his grandma would think. He continues to choose his grandma over the family that he started?'

What do you mean? He doesn'r listen to your suggestions? He makes decisions that have a negative effect on you? He spends all of his free time with her? Did she raise him?