Christmas call....

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Registered: 11-15-2007
Christmas call....
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Thu, 12-27-2007 - 11:29am

So he called me to wish me a Merry Christmas. I was so shocked that when we hung up, I was all anxious b/c i felt that i should have sounded more cheery.

The shock of the call I think I might have sounded a little flustered. He asked how I was (i asked the same) and what I had been up to (i think that is what he asked) and i was like just hanging out... and hanging out... That is all I could think of!

he was like "ok?" Then i just said "i was about to tell you something and it completely left my mind"... so then we just talked and he was talking about how he was at work and staying late and what his friend that he is staying with now was doing for the holiday.

i tried to make the fact that he was at work a positive thing by saying "at least you will be making money." i kinda thought he might not go home for the holiday b/c he didnt for thanksgiving and he isnt talking too much with his dad, so i assumed he would just offer to work.

he was telling me something that triggered a story i remembered and i went into the story and in the middle of it his phone at work rang so then he had to go so we just said bye.

i had hoped since our conversation was interrupted that he might call back. i didnt hear from him again.

i am just feeling stupid b/c of how i sounded and i wish i was more happy sounding instead of how i was. it has been really bothering me and i have been feeling very anxious about it.

i know NC is what is best for us right now as us getting back together is very possible and is always on my mind. i was happy that he called. of course i dont know what the call meant.

what do you think? opinions... suggestions?

*you can read my former posts to get the story with us.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 12:04pm

He probably fought with himself quite a bit over whether or not he should call, but decided it would be the nice thing to do because it's the season for doing nice things.

He called you to be nice. Don't expect another phone call.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 1:49pm

Hi tiffy4269,


The call doesn't necessarily mean anything if he's not specifically saying he wants to get back together or wants to be friends.