An Closet Emotional-Reck

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Registered: 03-04-2004
An Closet Emotional-Reck
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Thu, 03-04-2004 - 1:43pm
I'm very disappointed in my behavior. I'm unsecure, jealous, and pouty. My actions have been that of a 4 yo. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, because he told me do what I think is best. I have had a past of being unappreciated and that statement makes me feel unneeded and I also am beginning to experience PMS at 31 yo. I really care about this man, maybe love him, but I feel I need to heal my heart of the past hurts so, I can avoid these feelings. I'm used to being pouty and getting my way. I atleast expect to be talked to like he cares. I think I have some underlying needs he can't meet.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 03-04-2004 - 2:40pm
Since you know what the issues are, why haven't you sought help - like short-term counseling? It can really help.


Carrie

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Thu, 03-04-2004 - 5:06pm
It is time for counseling to figure out where this behavior was learned and why you continue.

Good luck