Cold Feet?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2006
Cold Feet?
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Fri, 02-29-2008 - 8:07am

I'm getting married in 7 months and I keep having these thoughtsof panic and worry that we're not going to last. That somehow things will end badly between us. Like what if he looses interest in me? What if he finds someone better? What if I annoy him so much he'll want to end things?


Then I get paincked b/c I feel like I'm losing my independence- like the goals I set for myself I will never get to accomplish... Is this normal? Is it cold feet? Or something more?


Help :/

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2006
In reply to: sheesha8309
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 7:57am

Thanks missjess2008. I completely agree with you! We're too quick to the therapist's chair in our society

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-07-2006
In reply to: sheesha8309
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:47am

There are many things much worse than divorce that can happen in a bad marriage.



iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sheesha8309
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 1:08pm
Hi Amy - Don't worry about the hat..... It doesn't bother me and I think Coltara agrees with me.




iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: sheesha8309
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 1:45pm
I do agree. Not a problem at all.

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