Comfortable or passionate?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2007
Comfortable or passionate?
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 11:56am
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years, meeting in college. We have talked about marriage and are both pretty committed to each other. Lately, I have been feeling restless and unhappy about several aspects of our relationship. I don't really have a desire for him anymore. I don't feel that spark of electricity when he kisses me or when we are sexual. He has a really high sex drive and I could go without having sex with him. It almost feels that we are more best friends than lovers. I do love him, but I'm not sure if I'm IN love with him anymore. What can I do to help this?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 12:29pm
Don't force it. Are you really ready to get married in general? To me, you are still young and maybe you need to date others and be single for a few years. Maybe you aren't in love so please don't plan a wedding until you figure this out. Talk with him about it too.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 4:44pm

Welcome to the board red6583,


Do you want to fall in love again? Do you want the spark to be there again?