Commitment issues!! x
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|Tue, 09-20-2011 - 7:02am|
Hellooo... I will try and keep this short and sweet!!
Basically I have been seeing this man for around 5 months, It started out very casual as he had recently split up from his girlfriend of 7 years and he was a mess. I would be the one he would talk to about everything...
Over the past few months we have grown really close, he will stay over most weekends, come to my house for a brew in the week and we speak to each other every day on the telephone!!! My problem is... he still has so many issues from his past relationship he wont commit to me... he says things like.. " I promised myself i will never get hurt again.. im not ready" " I cant bare to commit again incase i get hurt" " iv got feelings for you but im scared of them and i wish i didnt have them"
Your probably thinking run away.. but we get on sooo well and he tells me he feels it too... Can I have some advice please? if we carry on like this will he eventually give in when we have become even closer?