communication

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2006
communication
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Fri, 07-18-2008 - 8:43am
I've been dating this guy for 4 months now.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: shy_one
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 1:39pm

Welcome to the board shy-one,


Do you know what is causing you to not have many conversations? Like that you don't have anything in common? I think the key to fixing this is figuring out the cause.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
In reply to: shy_one
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 5:50pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: shy_one
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 8:50pm

Welcome to the board shy-one,


Cultivating conversation, deep sharing, emotional intimate sharing comes from a different place than what you get in the honeymoon phase of a new relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: shy_one
Fri, 07-18-2008 - 11:17pm

I can understand your concern because the conversations should be getting more personal as time goes on.


some guys do what they have to do in the beginning of a relationship romance-wise in order to "hook" the girl and then they slow down with everything and that is when the woman gets concerned because the guy was pretending to be someone he wasnt. do you think that this guy is like this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2006
In reply to: shy_one
Sat, 07-19-2008 - 10:06am
I don't know what is causing this.