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Compatible?
| Sat, 03-13-2004 - 11:27am |
He's a perfectionist. I'm just interested in getting it done. He thinks and thinks then plans before acting. I get it done while he's thinking about thinking about it. His deliberation annoys me. My "getting it done" impresses him. I know I can"t change him. The question is "How do I learn to gladly accept the differences between us while inside I'm highly frustrated?" The relationship is definitely worth putting some work into it.

I don't think a relationship "needs" opposites. I personally find it much easier to be on more of the same page with my SO. However, I know people who are opposites who seem to make things work ok. Some people like a bit of a challenge to keep things interesting, while others enjoy contentment in an even keel. Whatever works for you! Good luck.