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| Mon, 10-06-2008 - 7:38pm |
Ok, i posted this down on a different board too but no answers yet, maybe
| Mon, 10-06-2008 - 7:38pm |
Ok, i posted this down on a different board too but no answers yet, maybe
I have not.
Welcome to the board ckgkelly,
When you talk to him, you could tell him that "relationship issuses are reflected in the bedroom and that since you still want him sexually, you'd like to hear his input on the lack of sex".
If he's not depressed or on meds, it could be that his hormone levels are off.
Other iVillage resources: Mismatched Libidos
Hi There,
I have a similar issue going on in my relationship.
This is a confusing situation and the only way to clear it up is by discussing it with him. Be honest, be open. Ask him why the sex stopped? (He may not know the deeper reasons, but find out what he's thinking of?) It's hard to go backwards in a relationship from having sex and chemistry to being friends. It's important to understand and define what's going on. If you are friends in his head, and lovers in yours, then there's going to be constant confusion. So, get your cards out on the table. Be honest, open, kind and clear. And believe what he tells you. Make sure he's clear as well, not hemming and hawing and holding out promises for tomorrow. Then also, see if you want a friendship with a guy, or want to use that time and put all your feelings into a relationship that is male/female romance and can grow into all you are hoping for.
Best wishes,
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