confront or move on?

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Registered: 11-27-2007
confront or move on?
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:00pm

I almost feel awkward even writing about this because I probably already *know*the answer.


To start w/ background, the last 2 serious relationships I was in previously ended with the girls I was with cheating on me and having a pattern of lies.


Needless to say, it caused me to be fairly insecure for a period.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 3:12am

Athough I can understand the lie. It doesn't make it right. You should tell her you snooped, the fact that she deleted the call shows that she thought you might. Yes telling her the truth will be hard because it will reinforce that mistrust, but if you let her know how sorry you are it might open the door for her to do the same.


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