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|Wed, 03-14-2012 - 10:36pm|
I met this man in the beginning of February. When we first met we went out to lunch together a few times. Perhaps two weeks after meeting him he began taking me as his "plus one" to his shows (he is in two bands). He also began staying overnight at my apartment 3x a week. At the very beginning of us spending time alone together he told me that "we could never have a real relationship". I didn't think much about this, because we have so much in common, have all the same friends, and get along so well, so I knew I would be okay with him just being my friend. In the last two weeks, however, things have drastically changed. This man is one of the busiest people I know. He has a new album coming out, plays shows probably 4-5x a week, works two jobs, and takes a few classes. However, in the last two weeks I have seen him at least 12 days and we have spent almost every night together, which says a lot considering his schedule. We talk frequently when we are not together. He tells me how beautiful I am, how much he enjoys my company, and that he likes me. He also told me that he wants to be 'exclusive' with me, and wants me to live with him this summer so I won't be three hours away. I am falling very hard for him. I have never been a girl that assumes I can change a guy. He told me we would never have a real relationship, so I have assumed this ever since. However, I do feel like we are both feeling very emotionally attached to each other. I am afraid of getting hurt and having feelings that aren't going to be reciprocated. Should I just assume he does just want to be friends, or is it possible he has changed his mind about the possibility of a relationship with me?