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Confused
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 4:08pm |
My husband of 1 year befriends more women then men at work. The issue I have is I feel he likes one a little too much. He has never cheated in the 7 years we have been together. He has access to his work email from home and I know all his passwords etc. So of course I check every once in a while. One of the times I checked they had a nice banter going and he asked the question "Since you are in such a great mood, want to have an affair?". Needless to say, I was devastated. The reply was just a LOL and not a chance. But my problem now is how do tell him I know this. I breeched his trust by checking his email, but I did it. Could it be it was really just a joke? Or am I just clouding over my eyes? I have asked him about this girl and their friendship, I have told him I didn't like for him to go to lunch exclusively with just one person and he agreed. He just tries to assure me that I am the only one and he would never throw away what we have for a fling. But I struggle with this now. What do I do?

How do you tell him? I have no clue. Be honest and forthcoming. You need to talk about this.
Carrie
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