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confused
| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 5:00am |
I am so confused . I'm a 22 years old and I have a boyfriend who is 28. We first meet online then in person. He's a great guy and everything. It's just I got out of a Hugh relationship(marriage) and he's talking about marriage and being with me forever.( Which freaks me out, we only be dating for a month and one week) I told him that we need to go slower. He want to get married before he turns 40. But I don't want to get married for a long long time my be in my late 20's early 30's. That is to late for him. He tells me that he never felt this way about me, and he doesn't want me to dump him. He also tell him that am "The one". I don't know what to say, cause I don't know what he'll do. I am still young I want to have fun , date other guys. Not just get out of a hugh relationship and then getting into another one. I just want to know how to tell him without hurting him even though I should of told him in the begging. Can it be work out or tell him before something else happens? -confused

i would be very very wary of someone who professes "you are the one" and "i want to marry you" after knowing you for 5 weeks (no offence, sweetie, I am sure you are great! but that kind of talk scares me!)
I think that your instincts are telling you to run - so run. tell him the truth - he is a nice guy but at this point in your life you are not interested in getting so serious, and you want to take it slowly, and meet other people, and spend time on school/work/travel/whatever.
just to be on the safe side- I would advise you to do this someplace public, and have a friend or two nearby to take you home.