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confused
| Thu, 07-31-2008 - 12:50pm |
ok me and my husband have had alot of problems in our past. we got married really young and we have two girls 6 and 4. they love us both so much. i have cheated once in our marrriage and he found out and we worked through it . he asked me for a divorce 2 weeks ago and it is killing me and my children cry theirselves to sleep becasue they miss their dad. i guess our problem is we never tryied in our marriage we just let each other do what we wanted. and i know that you have to try and i am willing. this is hurting me and i wouldve never expected my husband to cheat on me. he is a family man he loves his children adn me so much. but he is seeing this girl that he works with now and i think that she is some of the reason that he is doing this . 3 weeks ago he ask me to try to help him get another job because he sisn't want to be up there anymore because alot of people drink and it was causeing him to drink alot and now i think that is was because he didn't want to be around the bad influences. he is a good man . and i am afraid that he is going to mess his reputation up. becasue i know the girl that he is seeing is on drugs really bad . i think he is just confused and just trying to get a little out of life right now. i want my marriage back. i want to make things work but how do i get him to come home? he wont call me or to check on his kids.i think he is on drugs because he doesn't even act like himself. i want him home and so do my children they cry every night because they miss their dad. and they want him home and i have told him that. how can i get him to come home to us? i even have him another job that is waiting on him for when he gets ready to leave that one but now he is saying that he is gonna stay there. please help because i don't know what to do .im majorly depressed and own medication just to be there for my children

Welcome to the board dee_0203,.
Sad to say, but true, you can reason with someone on drugs. If he's out doing what he wants to be doing, won't return your calls, won't check on the kids, there is nothing you can do.
Welcome to the board dee_0203,
I am sorry you are going through this. The thing he is an adult and he making his own choices. Granted they are some very bad ones. You have tried to reach out and help him and he isn't responding.
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