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Confused
| Mon, 04-07-2008 - 6:40pm |
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Hi, I am on here trying to get some help. I have a strange situation on my hands. Now I dated a guy for 6 years. Things were ok between us, but he had a problem with being treated good. So it ended due to me not trusting him and so on. Well that was in 2005. Now he and I share a common best friend. The best friend lives and works with him and we hang out and talk on the phone. We are close like siblings. So last summer he had been dating someone else and she didn't want us talking as friends since she was insecure about it. So he and I ended up stopping contact. Then I had a motor vehicle accident and went to see our best friend and he avoided me since his gf at the time was there. So of course I got mad and we got into a fight and I told him never to call me again. For awhile I didn't talk to the common friend since he was part to due with it. But ok, so he was dumped by that gf the day after he and I stopped talking. Well months went by, I started talking to my old best friend again, not my ex. Well recently he came out to hang out with the best friend and I. It has been almost 8 months of nothing and he pops up. Comes out a few times and now nothing. Now when he is out, our best friend will leave us together and so wont most of the other people around. Now he didn't ask for my number, he said he would get it from the best friend. Now I can understand coming out once, he told me his sister, got married. Her and I used to be close as well. Now things never change with us, he spent half the night staring at me and the other half playing with my cell phone or his, or trying to make jokes. I'm not sure what to think. I would have been fine the way it was before, but with him recently coming out the old feelings have started to come back. I'm not sure what to do. Now also the best friend we have likes me, the guy knows I would never date him since he is my ex's best friend. But most people tell me if he came out more then once and was like old times that is a good sign? I'm confused. I know what my heart tells me, I know what my head tells me. I am in a different place in my life. I have gone up and up and he has gone down and down. Any advice?

Welcome to the board cherry0125,
Sorry but unless he's asking you out, asking for another try at a relationship, I wouldn't read anything into him coming out a few times.
I think if he wanted to get back together with you that he would have said something along those lines by now. Especially since you have a past together. Also if he try to get together with him now, it is going to hurt your friend that you know likes you. It may be time to talk to your best friend about this and let him know where you stand.
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