Confused

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Registered: 01-21-2008
Confused
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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 11:16am

My boyfriend broke up with me 9 months ago after 4.5 years of a great relationship.

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Registered: 09-06-2007
In reply to: goddess_chris08
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 12:58pm

This is not a mixed signal.....he is not interested in having a relationship with you because he is dating another woman.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: goddess_chris08
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 1:46pm

Welcome to the board goddess_chris08,


The fact is if he wanted to be with you he would break up with his current gf and be with you. He likes having you on the side in case this relationship fails than he can come back to you. Plus he strokes his ego that you still like him and want him. Him trying to kiss you is unacceptable. Do not allow his. I think it would be best if you end contact with him while he is involved in this other relationship.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: goddess_chris08
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 2:12pm

'(yet he wants to touch and kiss me when we get together.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: goddess_chris08
Mon, 01-21-2008 - 4:16pm

Welcome to the board goddess_chris08,


Him overhearing you was the excuse he needed to break off with you and officially date the other woman. He's already been having lunch with her and building a emotional bridge there.