confused

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Registered: 08-21-2007
confused
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Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:55pm

i am maried but the marrage isnt happy anymore ... im not happy, my husband doesnt think anything is wrong. and my ex is still in love with me he told me andthe thing is i get butterflys when my x is around and i have nothing for my husband i need some help.

~deasperate in new york~

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Registered: 06-14-2005
In reply to: goddess_tink13
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:26am

hi,

sorry to read about your situation. from my experience, the only reason why your ex lights up your life is b/c you don't have any obligations w/him. you don't have to talk about bills, kids,sex and life. There are no ties w/him and you feel free b/c there's no responsibility.

my suggestion, talk to your hus. its obvious that you love him or you wouldn't be here posting on this board. suggest marriage counseling and find the romance that you once had.

in order to fix your marriage you have to STAY inside your marriage; you can't do that by seeking comfort outside of your marriage.

ravishing




Edited 8/22/2007 12:16 pm ET by ravishingbeauty