Confused

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Registered: 04-22-2006
Confused
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Sat, 08-11-2007 - 7:30pm
My story is like some big drama show. Basicly. i was with my bf for a year and a half and just last june he breaks up with me really angerly and doesnt want to talk to em and says some hurtful things ( no name calling or n e thing) i was heartbroken.. and now.. we are trying to sort things out and hes willing to as well. He says he loves me still and that wut happened before was out of anger and he didnt intend to hurt me . I am careful now but i still love him of course. At the moment im in kuwait and hes in england so we are far away. But then i tell him r u scared of the phrase in a relationship and hes like no i prefer the word lovers. and i ask him why and he says i dont know and giggles. He wants a commitment with me and wants to work things out and im either analysing the whole situation compeltely wrong . this man wants me back but im just confused of what he really wants. i will talk to him face to face about it all. i told him i dont want to haev sex till im emotionally ready ( he was my first to sleep with )and he agrees with it. What is actually going on ? im probably confusing with wut im writing. he is an emotional guy and has always been but sometimes he hides it. should i give it time to see whats going on when im with him in the same country ?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: saz_da_gecko
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 2:23pm

Welcome to the board saz_da_gecko,


How long before you can be in the same country?

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: saz_da_gecko
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 3:55pm

Welcome to the board saz_da_gecko,


I think it would be best to wait until you are in the same country again. Then you will be able to communicate with him better and get a better feel for how he really feels about things.


Good luck.

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