confused

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Registered: 12-19-2006
confused
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 8:44am

i'm 30 and my bf is 28 and we have been dating for 7 months now. Everyhing is great and he has told me he loves me, even though it was just once or twice, but his actions show me he does.

My parents have never met him but recently they mentioned the fact that since i'm 30 i should ask him where this relationship is going, if he has marriage in mind or not.

Now i'm very confused as this thought didn't cross my mind since i think 7 months is too soon.

Please give me advice as i'm very confused now

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In reply to: trisshhh
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 9:55am
You are only 30! I didn't get married until I was 33 and had my first baby at almost 35 and my second one at 37. YOU HAVE TIME....he is only 28. If in the next year or two, that isn't where it is going...then move on, but for now, have fun and enjoy each other...just my opinion.
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In reply to: trisshhh
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 10:15am
thanks! i agree with you perfectly :-)
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In reply to: trisshhh
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:58pm

Welcome to the board trisshhh,


Don't let your parents of anyone else pressure you into things you are not ready for. You have plenty of time to bring up the marriage subject. If it doesn't feel right to you right now, then wait until it does.


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Registered: 09-19-2002
In reply to: trisshhh
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 8:57pm
Go at your own pace. If you think 7 months is too soon, then it's too soon for you. You're 30, you get to make your own decisions.