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| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 9:10am |
Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years.but recently I met this guy that im starting to really like!Ive tried to avoid him but what happens then is that i look foward to seeing him every morning in college. Dont get me wrong im i love with my boyfriend but is it normal to like a guy even if you have a boyfriend? These two past years that ive been with my boyfriend have been the best! he reslly loves me and i dont want to do anything to hurt him. I want to stay with him, i know that much but i dont know why i cant seem to forget about this guy! please help me!

The thing is that you are just dating and you are young, this could be a sign that you are not ready to settle down w/ your current boyfriend. I don't know how old you are, but you said you are in college, so I am assuming you are under 25. Most long term relationships/marriages that begin before that age usually don't last. So, I would sit down and make sure I want to really be committed. You only live once - why tie yourself at such a young age? Why not date around (like with this new guy) and make sure that you are really happy.
If you decide you want to stay with your current bf, then make sure you cut off contact with the guy you are attracted to. This is how cheating happens. You find yourself attracted to another person, you don't avoid them, and then.....