Confused about exboyfriend/ re-dating

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Registered: 10-24-2007
Confused about exboyfriend/ re-dating
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Wed, 10-24-2007 - 5:30pm

Here is a short overview of

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 5:58pm

Welcome to the board laurenswt818,


He "dates" you and then tries to get with other girls because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Plus he knows you will put up with it. He wants to make sure that he always has a girl that will be with him and he knows that you will be there.


DO NOT move in with him right now. That would be

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 6:54pm

Welcome to the board laurenswt818,


I agree with Coltara's advice.


I'd even add, as long as you aren't setting boundaries that reflect your self-respect, the message you are sending him is that he can have your body as well as anyone else's he wants because you keep taking him back.

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Registered: 07-16-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 7:38pm
Give it up. He won't change because you are already giving him what he wants. Is the relationship worthless? Yes, and so is the guy! Would YOU treat someone else the way he treats you?