Confused about this guy......

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2004
Confused about this guy......
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 1:00am
Hi,

me and this guy are talking and have been for the past 7 months.he has already

said i love you and we have plans about getting married,haveing kids,and spending the rest of our lives together...but yet we have not met....its sort of like a blind date but we have been talking for 7

months.is this guys telling me the truth or is he just lying to me?!? i dont know

what to think......i really like him and i think i have fallen for him is that

possible for 2 people to fall in love and not have met?he lives like an hour from my

house and we have plan of meeting sometime really soon?What should i do???.....

I NEED HELP!!!!

Thank you....

Ashley
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2004
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 10:05am
YOU THINK YOU HAVE IT BAD?I MET AGUY AT A CLUB 3 WEEKS AGO. BY THE 3RD DAY HE WAS TELLING ME THAT HE LOVES ME! HE LIVES 1HR FROM ME AND I'VE ONLY SEEN HIM ONCE THAT NIGH. SUPPOSELY IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SITE! NOW THATS SOME OLD CHEEZ. BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH YOU NEVER KNOW CUZ' EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. I THINK YOU SHOULD MEET UP AND SHARE WITH HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND YOUR FEARS.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2003
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 11:43am

whoah...I think you and this guy need to back track and meet first before you start thinking about what you are goin to name your children. Dont be in a rush, if it is supposed to be, then it will without being rushed.


Is it because you live far apart that you havent met yet? I think that should be #1...then go from there. There is alot more to mariiage and everything else than chemistry over the phone...


Best wishes,


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:04pm
It is very easy to become attached to someone through the internet. You share deep, personally, intimate things with each other BUT it's a lot like journal writing. It's not a real relationship. You both can read the emails at when you want, reply when you want, yet carry on your life as usual, still going about your routines. So even when someone comes across as 'being in love' and being emotionally supportive, they may not be so when you meet face to face, as the usual routine is no longer the same.

Until you meet in person, start a face-to-face relationship, you won't know for sure how serious/believable either of you are.


Carrie