confused about husband and boyfriend

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2004
confused about husband and boyfriend
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Mon, 07-12-2004 - 8:23pm
i am married been married for 6 years and have 2 children. have usually always been very happy until last year i started having an affair with an ex boyfriend, just not sure what i am doing or how to handle this. care for husband and boyfriend need help.please
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 11:45pm
It's easy: drop the affair and work on the marriage. Afterall, you didn't make those marriage vows so you could turn around and break them now, did you? Are you being fair to your husband? Are you being fair to your kids? What kind of a man would have an affair with a married mother of 2? Nobody I'd respect; that's for sure.

I don't know what problems you feel you have in your marriage, but whatever they are you should be doing everything you can to work on them with your husband instead of running around behind his back having an affair. The confusion you are experience is something you brought on yourself.

Jennifer

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