Confused about marriage

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Registered: 01-05-2004
Confused about marriage
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Mon, 01-05-2004 - 3:39pm
I am new here so bear with me. I have been married for 5 years and have 2 kids (3 & 4). My husband drinks (2 six pack 16 ox and 2 24oz) daily, he watched porn daily. The problem is that I lost respect for him when I came home from work early and caught him in the living room watching he video and doing his thing while our son was in the room crying because his father wouldn't let him out. I think that I have also lost respect for him because of the abuse that he put me through both physically and emotionally in the past. While he was in Kuwait he didn't drink at all and now it is a daily routine. I have figured it up and he spend about $250/month on beer. He tells me he watched porn because I won't have sex with him and he has even threatened to go and see a hooker. I feel that I should leave him but then I feel guilty because of the kids. Any suggestions on what I should do. I have tried talking with him but of course everything is either my fault or my families.

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 1:07pm
Have your friend call - 1-800- 977-SAFE they will help her get out.


Carrie

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