Confused about my relationship
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| Thu, 07-26-2007 - 12:47pm |
My Boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year, and We are completely opposite from one another, but we do have alot in common. I love him but Im just worried hes not the one for me, and I dont want to go on longer and have it be even harder to leave. I have lived with him pratically since the day we met, we have been in seprable. We have lived together for a year, and its hard to imagine life without him. He hates my friends and doesn't approve of me going out with them. Hes 23 and Im 20. Im love him but I dont know if its enough, he has alot of anger issues and trust issues and I wonder if he'll ever change and when the subject get brought up he always tells me if I think he is going to change then I should leave, Im confused and unsure of what to do.

Honestly, it sounds like there are several reasons to move on;
1)You are young and have many years ahead of you to date and find out who you are without being tied down.
2)He has anger issues which may only escalate into further and worse abuse.
'he always tells me if I think he is going to change then I should leave,'
3)He is right!
Good luck. Find someone who treats you well.
Do you have a place to go? Do you have family to live with? Start there. Can you get a license or is it a medical reason you don't drive. You and he have created this situation where he can control you but only YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
Seek counseling to figure out why you stayed with this man and have such a fear of being without a man.