confused and frusterated

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Registered: 07-29-2004
confused and frusterated
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Fri, 08-06-2004 - 4:35pm
Im gonna try to post something in here and see what I get.

So I met this guy a month ago, due to time and whatnot we've only been able to physically see each other about 4 times. At the beginning stage he ALWAYS called me at least everyday or everyother. Things were going along great. He would call me the to make sure i made it home safe, wanted to help out even thought he had no way to do so, etc.

Then starting a week ago the calling went from him always calling to him telling me to call him after work. So i would, but he wouldnt return my calls. I left a message on a wed and again on sat and no reply. So i gave up figured it was done...then that following monday a week from the last time he called me and i talked to him, he calls. Wants me to call him the next day so we can hang out. So i did, but he never returned my call. I called him tuesday morn and asked him if he wanted to hang out and frusteratingly he said yes but that he had a friend and he would have to tag along wherever we went, but that i should give him a call after work. I did...no return call.

So wednesday i call after work..this was the last time before i gave up...and he called me later that evening 10pm because he locked his keys in the car and was wondering if i could come help with my AAA. I did, then went over to his house since it was so close. Apparently he never even tried to call his roomate to help, but he called me.

I stayed the night there since it was so late, and the next am as he walked me to the door, he told me to give him a call once i was outta work..i did...


He has yet to call me back!!!!


Anyone have any ideas?????

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Fri, 08-06-2004 - 6:19pm
This guy wants to see you when it is convenient for him or when he can use you (AAA). He likes the chase but not the catch. Assume that this won't stop. Can you live this way,only seeing him when he feels like calling you?