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confused little blonde
| Wed, 03-24-2004 - 1:58pm |
Ok, I was IMed by my ex yesterday. Him and my mom got along ok....using the term "ok" lightly. He was a really good guy, treated me wonderfully, but, well, to be honest, I have no idea why him and my mom couldn't get along as well as I'd liked. Well, anyway, I haven't talked to him in about 3 months...since we broke up really. Well, he said that he wanted me to come over his house again soon, he was just busy with cleaning so he hadn't asked me sooner. So, I ask this....does he want me back and is unsure how to tell me? He also wants my friends to come over too. Is he planning something?? My mom doesn't want me to be associated with him anymore. He never cheated on me or anything, shouldn't she forgive him??? I already have.
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blondebeauty03

Your mother isnt the one that dated him- you are, so your mother should have no bearing in your decsion. I respect the fact that your mother is trying to look out for your best interest, but at the same time, you need to make your own decisions, your own mistakes. You said he never cheated and he was a great guy, but never specified why you really broke up, or why your mom doesnt like him...but it comes down to it being your choice, not hers.