It is always confusing meeting someone in person for the first time that you met online. It could be that you read things wrong or maybe he realized he wasn't ready for a real relationship.
People have all kinds of feelings and play all kinds of games. Some are just afraid of being in a real relationship or getting involved. Especially when feelings come up too soon, it can be scary. So, although he seems to have been drawn to you and cared, clearly is not ready for the next steps. Just take it for what it is, and let it go.
drshoshanna, thank you for your reply, thank goodness I bounce back, I've realized he may not be ready or may not be into me, I'm over it, few pity thoughts and I'm fine.
Welcome to the board dowells2008,
It is always confusing meeting someone in person for the first time that you met online. It could be that you read things wrong or maybe he realized he wasn't ready for a real relationship.
Sorry you have to go through this.
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Welcome to the board dowells2008,.
When meeting someone online, it's really hard to know how many other people they are meeting also.
People have all kinds of feelings and play all kinds of games. Some are just afraid of being in a real relationship or getting involved. Especially when feelings come up too soon, it can be scary. So, although he seems to have been drawn to you and cared, clearly is not ready for the next steps. Just take it for what it is, and let it go.
Best wishes,
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