Confused or dillusional

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Confused or dillusional
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Wed, 03-19-2008 - 5:19pm

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 12:07pm

Welcome to the board dowells2008,


It is always confusing meeting someone in person for the first time that you met online. It could be that you read things wrong or maybe he realized he wasn't ready for a real relationship.


Sorry you have to go through this.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 1:03pm

Welcome to the board dowells2008,.


When meeting someone online, it's really hard to know how many other people they are meeting also.

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 3:37pm
Thanks Carrie...I'm thinking it just didn't click..still stinks !! Oh well, have to get over my bruised ego.
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 3:40pm
Thanks for your reply...I'm going to hold on to "maybe he's just not ready", it's a little easier to accept.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 2:16pm

People have all kinds of feelings and play all kinds of games. Some are just afraid of being in a real relationship or getting involved. Especially when feelings come up too soon, it can be scary. So, although he seems to have been drawn to you and cared, clearly is not ready for the next steps. Just take it for what it is, and let it go.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 2:44pm
drshoshanna, thank you for your reply, thank goodness I bounce back, I've realized he may not be ready or may not be into me, I'm over it, few pity thoughts and I'm fine.