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| Mon, 02-20-2012 - 4:54pm |
Hello All,
I am confused about what to do with my relationship. My boyfriend of 15 months has never told me if he loves me. He has never even said that he misses me or that i look good when i dress up. I have always believed that you should read more into a man's actions than words. So I have tried not to let this bother me. However, lately his actions have been confusing me. Some days he does incredibly sweet things for me and on other he acts indifferent towards the relationship.
Last month I was out of the country visiting my family (we're both first generation immigrants but from different countries) for ten days. I called him and we talked for an hour on Sunday night. I told him that I would call again Thursday night and to text me and let me know if he wasn't going to be able to talk then. He said ok. I called him Thursday night, he didn't answer the phone. I got a text from him Friday afternoon saying that he had left his phone in the car Thursday night when I called. It bothered me that but I didn't say anything.
This month I had to travel for work for 2 weeks and was going to have to spend the weekend away. In the first week I
- Boyfriend and I have agreed to start over. 3
- My fiancee is PIS*ING me off!!!!! 10
- Not sure how to go forward 5
- Girlfriend talks down to me 6
- Is this normal am i wrong? 13
- How to talk to boyfriend after taking time apart? 9
- Maybe it's just my own insecurity? 7
- girl depressed and im dating her 10
- My New Man Has a Woman Living with Him 18
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Perplexed, did he used to call and text you frequently?
No, he never used to call or text often. But he spent all his weekends and holidays with me. We took vacations together. I doubt he thought it was just casual. Anyway, my question is whether I should move on unless he contacts me or should I initiate contact and talk to him? After all, I did surprise him with my question.
Could it be that there is not enough boundary communication?
I am not wanting constant communication. I have a busy life myself. But I want him to call when he says he is going to call. And if for some reason he cannot call then I want him to text me and say that he cannot call. I don't think that's crossing any boundaries.
IMO there was a misunderstanding of what I wrote.
Aren't you doing a LOT of "I can live with that" in this relationship?
Fissatore, I don't know where you read that
Re-read your original post!