Confusing Boyfriend

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Registered: 08-16-2004
Confusing Boyfriend
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Fri, 09-17-2004 - 11:18pm
Im having a hard time understanding the way my bf has been acting.... He is 34 and I am 21. Everytime he gets mad at me he doesnt talk to me about what he got mad about and he doesnt even talk to me at all. This will usually last most of the day. I will try to talk to him about what he got mad about(and also try to figure out what it was that I did)and try to work it out but he wont talk. He just ignores me. Also it seems that he gets mad about every little thing that I do and he expects me to know what makes him mad without him having to tell me. Its driving me crazy. He never says anything nice......Well I take that back he says nice things when im all dressed up and ready to go somewhere. When im upset (mainly crying) about something he leaves me alone doesnt ask me if Im ok or anything. I have asked him if he could maybe start saying nice things and being romantic and he says no b/c I had to ask him. But I will rot before he does anything. LOL So I dont know what to do. If anyone could please help I would really appreciate it.

Thanks Alot to all that help,

Lindsey

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 2:09am

ummmm, and you are with him.... why? he doesn't treat you nicely. he gets all passive/agressive. he expects you to do all the 'work' in the relationship, and can't even be bothered to try and act romantic once in a while.


what's in this for YOU? why would you stay somewhere where you are not treated nicely?


remember - you can't change other people....