Confusing Break up

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Registered: 12-31-2003
Confusing Break up
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Wed, 12-31-2003 - 6:07pm
My boyfriend and I were together for almost two years. However, alot of the time we fougt and it was not until after we broke up that I realized how mean and hurtful I was to him during the relationship. After he broke it off with me he came back to me several times. Many of which I was strong but it was hard to not talk to him and I know we still both love eachother.

When I say we should give it another try he disagreed. He said he was hurt to much to start over right now. Therefore, he suggests we act like we are " dating " one another again...and just go out have a good time and see if we can get along that way. I am not sure whether I should take this as a hint to move on ..or if what he is saying really has some validity. I am very confused!

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Registered: 11-01-2003
In reply to: jjse19
Wed, 12-31-2003 - 10:45pm
i think the idea of getting so close and intimate and then getting hurt again scares him, but he still has feelings for you, and he doesn't want to just to simply cut you loose and be gone. i think just hang out with him, have fun, don't let the word "relationship" be a burden because it shouldn't be. just see what happens and who knows, you might hit it off again sometime.