Confussed

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Registered: 07-24-2004
Confussed
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Sat, 07-31-2004 - 10:02am
I wrote before on how my husband has a "female friend" that he has been talking to behind my back; however; he claims that he is not acting different towards me because of her (yeah right). He even told me that he doesn't think that he loves me anymore and that the times we had sex it did not mean anything to him. I have changed my approach towards this whole thing before I was nagging him all the time but now I am the nicest sweetes person. Last night he caught me taking care of business by myself (playing with myself) and he wanted to watch and he he even enjoyed it but after we were done he had to go to work but he did not even give me a kiss good bye like usual I felt like his b%^$#! Is this normal?
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Registered: 05-20-2003
In reply to: latinangel28
Sat, 07-31-2004 - 1:37pm
He cheats on you and doesn't love you and admits to having meaningless sex with you. Why are you in this marriage? Why do you think you deserve this?
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Registered: 07-24-2004
In reply to: latinangel28
Sat, 07-31-2004 - 7:18pm
I feel like I need to give him a chance and forgive him for my 4 month old son.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: latinangel28
Sat, 07-31-2004 - 11:58pm
Forgive what? Is he sorry for anything? Does he agree that he's done something wrong - not as a result of your behavior but because of his own poor choices? Does he agree that he senselessly hurt you?

Sounds to me like he doesn't really think he did anything wrong so how can you forgive him?

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Registered: 05-20-2003
In reply to: latinangel28
Sun, 08-01-2004 - 12:52am
What will your son learn from your relationship? How to treat women? How to have a relationship? How to lie? How to cheat? Just how will he benefit from you staying around?
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Registered: 08-01-2004
In reply to: latinangel28
Sun, 08-01-2004 - 3:25pm
I think you need to be strong for you and your child and move on.

You are young and you have that child's future in your hands and you need to leave this relationship.

Things are crazy in this world, and if he tells you that when you give yourself to him it means nothing to him, then you have to move on.

You have a child, and it is so sad that your husband could be having sex with other woman, he can get an STD, like an uncurable one, and give it to you, and then who is going to care for your child?

You and that baby deserve someone who will love you and want to spend the rest of their life helping you be a wonderful person, and a wonderful mother.

Take care and my prayers are with you.

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Registered: 07-24-2004
In reply to: latinangel28
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 9:51pm
Thank you everyone for your replies. They have helped me. Especially angelical baby you have really scared me about std's.