Consequences of a 3some?
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Consequences of a 3some?
| Fri, 07-27-2007 - 11:33am |
Alright...I know I am probably going to get some grief from a few people, already aware of this. I quess you would say I am expiremental bi-sexual. I really wanted to do a 3some with my boyfriend. We had previously spoke about it and knew there were rules. It would be a FFM, with the other woman and I entertaining my BF (I never wanted any intercourse between them) and then my BF and I. The opportunity arose after hanging out with a female friend and well alot of jager and we began. To my shock they do have intercourse, I know, I know it was a 3some, but I thought we had rules. We did end up stopping because I couldn't take watching that. NOw I know we wanted a 3some and alcohol was involved, but I never thought he would actual betray what we had previously spoke about. Now I am numb, I see that in my head almost every second and it weirds me out, my BF having sex with someone else. I am hoping that the thoughts will leave my mind after awhile..do I ask him why he went ahead and did that, should I care, I mean it was a 3some. What do I have to look forward to in the future? I honestly feel I made a mistake and that we truly F'd up. We were having sex last night and he seemed really into it more then ever and I asked him after it was done, was he thinking of me?? Now yes I am a bit jealous and no i didn't like him not listening to the our rules. Eek, I don't even understand what I am typing anymore. I guess we had rules in place, he went over those rules and did have intercourse, should I be upset, since it was infact half my fault to for wanting to have a 3 some for him. He reason for having sex with her was for me? Shoudl I be concerned or should I just let this one go, learn my lesson and hope we don't suffer consequences in the future?

Welcome to the board lilsoutherngal,
You have every right to be upset. You had agreed before the threesome that he would not have sex with the other women, but he did anyways. He broke the rules and betrayed you. You need to talk to him about this and figure out if this is something you can get over.
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