continue or end it?

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Registered: 10-26-2007
continue or end it?
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Fri, 10-26-2007 - 11:08pm

Relationships have always been an issue as far as finding the right guy.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 4:19pm
Welcome to the board kella24 and thanks for participating!





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Registered: 01-13-2007
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 9:41pm
I think you are very perceptive, and stated exactly what you're situation is. Trust me, when I met my husband he had told me about his only long term relationship previous to me, and I had asked him if he had loved her and he said he didn't know , he thinks he just kind of got used to her. And that's basically how their relationship played out as well - when he "felt" like seeing her he would, and when he didn't he would ditch her. Love isn't at all about convenience. I mean of course some things have to work out otherwise there wouldn't be a point at all to the relationship, but it doesn't show that you are truly IN LOVE with a person when it is only based on convenience. If he loved you there would be passion not just convenience.

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