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Registered: 09-13-2007
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Fri, 09-14-2007 - 6:07pm

What is the best way to spice up a relationship?


I am getting kind of bored on the phone when I talk to my bf.


Things are usually fine in person. If we go out for dinner, sometimes I find myself getting bored towards the end. He is really a sweet guy. He is somewhat of a computer geek but I like that about him.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 8:26pm

Welcome to the board tennischic2007,


Hmm, read a book together (over the phone or not - LOL) then discuss it.


These are listed as 'first date' questions, but I think some of the topics are good and they wouldn't be something I'd ask on a first date:


http://www.futurescopes.com/advice/98/twenty-good-questions-ask-your-partner-your-first-date


http://www.contentmart.com/articles/25833/1/Questions-To-Ask-On-a-First-Date/Page1.html




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Registered: 07-16-2007
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 3:11am
Perhaps, instead of dinner, you two can go do something that's more interactive (or LESS interactive lol). Lame examples that come to mind are miniature golf, dance class, bowling... How long have you been going out? Does he have hobbies that you would consider exploring?
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 8:44pm

Welcome to the board,


You could try limiting your phone conversations so you don't run out of things to say. Either don't talk as often or for as long. You could try asking him questions about his childhood that you might not know.


I also link the idea the