Could it be happening again?
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Could it be happening again?
| Mon, 01-12-2004 - 11:13am |
I am a divorcee and currently in a year long relationship. Everything is so wonderful, but I feel as though he is doing the same thing my ex did to me. My ex lied to me several times about posting ads on singles websites. Now my current boyfriend is doing the same thing. I searched his history and he is very interested in posting ads and searching for single women in our area. I want to trust him, but when I see things like this I automatically feel betrayed. He gets upset with me when I ask him to let go of his "female" friends from several years ago, since they call him at all hours of the night. We continue to argue when it comes to his "friends". Not only that, but he tells me that I should feel lucky because I'm the only female he has been faithful to this long. Is there any reason to be alarmed or am I paranoid?!

Yes, you should be alarmed!
Yikes! If being faithful after a year is such a remarkable thing for him then take it as a red flag and run! He is already showing signs of wanting to cheat if he hasn't already. Please don't put up with this any longer.
How does your SO treat you mostly? Honestly if I were you & really believed him to be worth my time I would go on the "singles site" as an attractive willing girl (get a pic off the internet or something & not an "obvious" one, then I'd see if he responds...If so It will hurt but it's better to know now than later. I must also add that guys like this(my bro. included) need to grow the hell up & learn how to treat women with respect. I, myself would never put up with that crap. You are special too. Don't Forget About You!!
Good Luck To You! HUGS!!!
From a males perspective point...
Good thing you are not married to him...because after the second time with the soon to be ex-wife...I just about had it with relationships for now.
Good luck and best wishes.
Good Luck!