Could it be Love

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Could it be Love
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Mon, 04-09-2007 - 9:10am
My husband is a truckdriver...everynight when he gets in..he has to check in at the office.
He became friends with the girl who works in the office...I think he has a crush on her..or he is in love with her...he talks about her all the time..and a few times he has spent 2 hours or more talking to her in the office about her personal life her divorce and very intimate details about her sex life...when he talks about her ...he has this big smile on his face..and tells me how much fun she is and she is so nice..a few weeks ago ..I told him I didn't want him hanging out with her anymore...and he told her..She made a remark about..that he wasn't her type.. I think If she had said she cared about him...or had feelings for him..I think he would have had an affair with her...but he still hangs out there and talks to her for about 45 minutes every night....He tells me he loves me...but he constantly talks about my body and how beautiful I am...he never tells me how nice I am ...
This woman can do no wrong as far as he is concerned..HELP...Can He be in LOVE with this woman....or is it just my imagination......
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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: cosmo695
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 3:48pm

Welcome to the board cosmo695,


At the very least it sounds like he is having an emontional affair with her. He may also have a little crush on her. He must feel like he is getting something from her that he isn't getting from you. Ask him what this is and again tell him you don't like his relationship with

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: cosmo695
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 7:03pm

Hi cosmo and welcome to the board,


Unfortunately, this is how so many emotional affairs (and physical affairs) start out.