Could we still have feelings?

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Registered: 06-03-2007
Could we still have feelings?
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Sun, 06-03-2007 - 7:17am
So me and my guy friend had a very odd relationship about two summers ago. We never really got far or made it official because our friends were too involved in our relationship and made everything awkyard and put too much pressure on the two of us but we definitly did like each other. When I finally left for college we took it as ending our relationship. Yeah I know bad communication problems is a problem enough with us. So at first we weren't really over each other because we hooked up over that following Thanksgiving. But now when I look at things I realize that we still flirt a great deal and it feels like we still have feelings for each other. I thought I was over him and everything but I don't think I am and now when I hang out with him I don't really think he is too. Yes we've been with other people during this time but not anything too serious. I've noticed that he still send me random sexual text messages in the middle of the night like he use to or that me and him always find a way of being close to each other when hang out whether it's sitting next to each other, flirting, rubbing our knees togeather, or just slight touches that you would never think anything of. Am I putting too much thought into this or is there really still something there? And if there are, are there any possible ways I can get out of this cause I've tried not liking him anymore but I just can never bring myself to it?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 8:01am
It sounds as though he's still happy to jump in bed with you. However, it doesn't appear that he's interested in a relationship.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 12:49am

Welcome to the board sesisum,


I gotta say, I agree with iv_aisha.

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Registered: 06-03-2007
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 1:25am
thanks you guys but I have another problem with that. I'm fine having sex with him and not a relationship that is actually what i want out of it. But another problem with him is that hes all talk and no play, like he'll tell me he wants to have sex with me and i've thrown myself out there and he know I will. But the thing is that he never initiates it and I'm not saying like he needs to cause hes the male but because I've made it very obvious but him telling me he wants to and will is diffrent then actually going through with it.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 1:43am
Well then, no feelings at all other than the thrill of being wanted.
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Registered: 06-03-2007
Tue, 06-05-2007 - 2:08am
Thank you, I like that.