coworker is pressuring me
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coworker is pressuring me
| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 7:28pm |
Hi i am 28 years old living with boyfriend for 2 years. My relationship is great with ups and downs but good. I work in this company that there are about 50 people and there is one guy who's 18 and will be 19 soon that we both started working the same day. They trained us together and became good friends. We used to talk a lot and have good times at work but there were some times where he will complement me alot and i used to say thanks but that was all. Well he continued to do so but to much and i let it go until a month ago i told him that i will not have anything to do with him besides friends to talk. He always says ok but he will try to make me fall each time. I have talked to him nicely that i don't want to hear those things anymore and i even got mad many times. I never do what he tells me to do or follow him for no reason but he just doesn't stop. He tells me that he doesn't care if i am with boyfriend and that he wants me. He tells me that he will leave his girlfriend to be with me. I keep on telling him stop and he won't. Today i told him stop pressuring me and his face changed. He said what ever and he smiled. He also siad I will try tomorrow. I am feeling pressure from this guy. I don't know what to do anymore. I like him as a friend but not as something else but he doesn't get it. He calls me from his phone to mine all day, writes me notes, comes by my office like 10 times a day. I feel desesperate and plus my boyfriend met him once while visiting my office. Please help? what should i do? Thanks

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From your side of things, if you don't set a boundary, firmly, which states firmly that you won't accept this type of behavior in your life, the 'universe' will send you more of the same. The message to the universe is (as long as you accept his behavior) that you don't mind and it's ok to send you more of the same kind of behavior.
If you want a really strange idea, email me at onetwinflame@hotmail.com
Carrie
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