Cyber/Phone Sex

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Cyber/Phone Sex
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 6:14pm
Okay here's the deal. I have caught my hubby on a number of occations having cyber sex and phone sex! I got really upset when I saw him watching other women on their webcams. It wasn't just that though, he was watching them do their thing, they were watching him do his thing, and he was talking to one or two of them on the phone. I hit the roof. Did I overreact? He swears it has nothing to do with me, with our sex life. He says that he "loves having sex" with me, but then i catch him doing this. It's all the time too, doesn't matter if i'm home or not. I can be downstairs cooking supper, in the shower, sleeping, whatever...as long as i'm not in the computer room he's doing this. I've had enough of it. I've asked him, begged him not to do this so much, but he doesn't see the problem. He doesn't understand why it hurts me since he's not "physically cheating." I've told him that i feel like he's cheating on me but he just says that doing this is like looking at magazines. I don't feel that way. What do you think? Am i wrong or is he?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 4:57pm
Forget the timeline...end it now. He's jerking you around and lying to you about his intentions of stopping.

Sheri

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