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| Mon, 04-30-2007 - 5:00pm |
so over the weekend a girlfriend and i went on a little road trip to a bigger city to go dancing and shopping, just generally some good fun. i told my bf that i would call him when we got back to our hotel, which i did. he called about twenty minutes later and couldn't get a hold of me (i had fallen into deep slumber,after our night out on the town.) i called him as soon as i woke up (5:30) and left him a message. he called me back and i could tell something was wrong. after i got back home later that day, he told me that he had freaked out and thought the worst when he couldn't get a hold of me. he then tells me that he logged onto my email and found an email to subscribe to an online dating site. the email that he logged onto, i haven't' used in a year, which i thought was probably obvious, since i had 1700 unopened email in my inbox and 16000 in my bulk ( junk mail is why i stopped using it)he saw this on like page 12 of all these emails, unopened and immediately thought that i was cheating on him. when i showed him that i hadn't sent any mail since june of last year, and hadn't opened any since then, he admittedly looked a little sheepish.
My question is, should i just let it go, or should i do something about this. i haven't done anything for him to not trust me, and it really hurts that he doesn't. but now that he's doe this, i don't know if i can trust him to not snoop in all my stuff. even though there isn't anything incriminating, i still don't like it. we have been dating for 4 1/2 years, and i can't believe this is happening. things continued to be strange an awkward between us for the rest of the night, but i'll spar everyone the long story. any suggestions would be very helpful. thanks!


Welcome to the board skeeter2007,
Lol on your type-o. I do it all the time.
Has your bf always been this untrusting of you? Did you ask him why he would think you were cheating on him?
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