Deeply Offended By Husband's Suggestion That I Allow Another Woman To Perform a Sex Act On Me.

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Registered: 06-12-2011
Deeply Offended By Husband's Suggestion That I Allow Another Woman To Perform a Sex Act On Me.
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Wed, 02-01-2012 - 3:02pm

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Registered: 12-22-2007

Keepingitreal1, a threesome (especially girl on girl)

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Registered: 12-05-2006

Okay, he didn't go about it the best way but if you can't share your fantasies with your spouse, who can you share them with?

Just say no and move on. He'll put that one on the back burner and move to his next most favorite fantasy.

Also, I can promise you that he didn't know what his next step would be had you said yes.

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Registered: 12-05-2006

Oh, and I liked the idea of throwing it back at him with the challenge that he engage is a similar act with a man but my only suggestion would have been to do so in playful banter... at least until you knew how serious he was about it.

Not long ago I asked my gf if she might ever be interested in anal sex and, without hesitation, her eyes lit up and she squealed in delight... "SURE !!"

I was surprised and asked, "Really?"

With a clever smile, she replied that she only had one condition... that being we buy a strap on dildO the same size as me and take turns going at it... her first on me and

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I agree that if he doesn't bring it up again you should just drop it.

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Registered: 06-12-2011

What really upset me was that when I said no way that was going to happen he countered with...how do you know you won't like it until you tried it. Then when I flipped it on him with the gay guy next door and asked him the same question he had a problem. Plus he's running around the neighborhood gossiping with other guys saying this woman wants me and I think my husband should be the last person spreading gossip about his own wife.

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Registered: 06-12-2011

I like your girl's way of thinking. That was a good one.

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Registered: 06-12-2011

Yes, he knew full well. Years ago he had a lesbian laborer working for him in his construction business and she clearly had a crush on me and almost fell off a ladder once staring at me when I walked by. We laughed about it and I told him that I never have and never could be into woman.

Once when I tried to watch

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Registered: 12-22-2007

OK, so he knows you were going to say "no".

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Registered: 05-20-2009

Well, he just asked........you said no, that's the end of it hopefully.

But it sounds like you're married to a 16 year old.......he gets his jollies telling the neighbors about the lesbian next door wanting you?

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Registered: 04-16-2008

Not really all that odd. Men love looking at naked women, and the only thing better than looking at one naked woman is looking at two naked women.

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