Defining the relationship
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Defining the relationship
| Fri, 08-27-2004 - 4:58pm |
I have been dating this new guy for three months. We have been seeing each other twice a week so far. In the beginning he did most of the asking. Now it's about equal. We are moving very slow. We have not been intimate. We hold hands occasionally and kiss at the end of our dates but no make-out sessions. Mostly he initiates. He's a perfect gentleman. We are both shy in this area.
How do I move from just dating to a relationship phase. We are both new to relationships. We both have dated but has never been in a relationship. He's really shy and a little quiet and never talks about feelings. It took him a long time to even open up and tell me about himself after I told him what a wonderful he is and let him know that i really enjoy his company. He is starting to feel more comfortable with me and open up more and become more talkative. I really like this guy because he has a warm and beautiful heart. It's just that he's been really shy. How do I bring up something that is not light in conversation with him? I would like for both of us to move to the next level. How do I know if he is ready? What does the next level mean? I hear that it is mostly women who brings up this type of conversation. So, I think I will have to be the one to bring it up, especially if he is shy. Please help. Your advice is greatly appreciated.
How do I move from just dating to a relationship phase. We are both new to relationships. We both have dated but has never been in a relationship. He's really shy and a little quiet and never talks about feelings. It took him a long time to even open up and tell me about himself after I told him what a wonderful he is and let him know that i really enjoy his company. He is starting to feel more comfortable with me and open up more and become more talkative. I really like this guy because he has a warm and beautiful heart. It's just that he's been really shy. How do I bring up something that is not light in conversation with him? I would like for both of us to move to the next level. How do I know if he is ready? What does the next level mean? I hear that it is mostly women who brings up this type of conversation. So, I think I will have to be the one to bring it up, especially if he is shy. Please help. Your advice is greatly appreciated.
